I have prepared a gift guide for you for (not only) Christmas to surprise people in your life who are sex-positive.
I tried to put a little bit of everything for everyone. You will find sex-toys, clothes, experiences, courses, and many other inspirations.
Independent creators made the most of the options below, not large corporations. No one paid me for being listed here; these are all items that I think could be great gifts. Some links are affiliate links, and each one of them is marked with an * (asterisk). The order is random, so yours may be hidden at the end of the list.
p.s. You might think there will be a lot of sex toys here, but that’s not the case. Buying a sex toy is a personal decision, and there is no specific toy that would make a good gift for someone, the only way to find out is to ask the person and maybe even shop together. However, I have included a few options here because they are versatile and work for many body types and situations.
Happy Shopping!
1. T-Shirts from Vulvora
“VULVORA is a Slovakia based designer brand focusing on sustainability, slow, and ethical fashion. The main themes are women, gender equality, and human rights. She made each piece to communicate a standpoint and express an opinion of an individual in a way that is not disturbing nor ignorable. Preparing a t-shirt she seeks to give people a voice, not only a style.” And my favorite:
2. Workshop from Bratislava Burlesque
Femme Fatale, Body positivity, Lap Dance, Burlesque Open Choreo. I have butterflies in my stomach already while writing individual names. With Bratislava Burlesque, you will step out from your comfort zone and discover your femininity. Specific workshops are on their FB page. This one you can visit in Slovakia, but I’m sure there is a burlesque nearby. 😉
3. Book Come as You Are from Emily Nagoski
I love when science comes together with pleasure and Emily Nagoski in her book “Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life“, did an amazing job. “It’s an essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality work, that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.”
How female pleasure works? What role context plays in arousal, desire, and orgasm? What is the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life?
4. Neklace and Vibrator in 1 Vesper from Crave
You can wear your pleasure. This product combines simple design, luxury, elegance, and high quality, which does not need to be hidden in a handbag because it is beautiful and impressive even as jewelry. The vibrator is USB-rechargeable.
5. Casting Kit (not only) for hands from Luna Bean
A great gift to preserve precious details or castings can be made in other parts of the body as there are no limits to imagination 😉 This set for hand casting is designed for two people and is hypoallergenic. It includes molding powder, premium strength casting stone, and a casting bucket.
p.s. For demanding customers and only to order, I recommend looking at this erotic wooden art.
6. Lipstick from Ilia
Ilia believes in the skin that looks like skin—and radiance that comes naturally. They challenge the conventions of clean beauty to create something radically new through safe, potent formulas that protect and revive your skin. It’s clean, buildable, nourishing with versatile color. Gorgeous shades beautifully highlight femininity. It’s love at first sight.
7. Subscription for Adult Movies from Erika Lust
Female provocateur and erotic film director Erika Lust is creating a new world of independent cinema for adults. If you want to be inspired by ethical porn, you have to pay for it, and the movies by Erika Lust are more than pleasurable. In healthy porn, there is an agreement between all adults who care about respect and mutual pleasure. It shows different bodies and sexual situations, sex is not only physical but also includes emotions and connections, and communication is encouraged.
8. CBD Massage Cube from Koa+Roy
This cube is ready to smooth and soothe, thanks to CBD-infused organic plant butter and oils (like cocoa, mango, aloe, and eucalyptus). Believed to reduce pain and inflammation, CBD may also aid in relaxation. KOA+ROY plants a tree with the help of the environmental non-profit One Tree Planted for every cube sold. They also use only 100% plastic-free packaging.
9. Workshop Erotic bondage from Shibari Dojo
Tying your partner during lovemaking is a great way to enhance sexual energy. It opens the gate to vulnerability and connection between partners. It’s fun, freaky, wild, and exciting. Kinbaku (tight binding) or Shibari (to tie decoratively) is a Japanese style of bondage that involves tying a person using simple yet visually complex patterns, usually with several pieces of thin rope. Where to find it? If you’re in Slovakia, I recommend Shibari Dojo or use google: shibari workshops nearby, and options will pop out.
10. E-Book on Sex, Intimacy & Desire from The Yoni Empire
This fantastic guide with 500 revealing questions is designed for lovers to deepen sexual desire. This ebook guide is full of information about why sexual desire fades in relationships, why novelty sex feels so hot and what to do when desire feels lost and your love life feels dull and unsatisfactory.
It includes conversation-provoking questions about sex, eroticism, love, relationship goals & desires, 20+ juicy tips for holding a fruitful conversation, the secret ingredient to epic sex, an extensive dive into novelty sex, sexual boredom, and long-term sexual desire, and a list of 6 best books on relationship communication, sex & love.
11. Vibrating Duck from Big Teaze Toys
The lovely waterproof vibrating and massage duck* is an original massage gift that will come to life most during a hot bath. It is intended just for adults who like to bring a little humor into their love life. It is mischief with sensual tricks and will bring relaxation to demanding days.
12. Erotic Painting from Tina Maria Elena
She is a half French and half Danish artist who specializes in sensual and erotic art from a woman’s point of view. She combines colors with a strong definition of spaces, which makes room for a dreamlike interpretation of lovemaking. Watercolors have such a sensual soft vibration, and it feels that she is communicating in a language of love through her art. Which one would stand out beautifully in your bedroom?
13. 1-hour Consultation with Relationship & Sex Coach from me
Relationship & Intimacy Coaching is for people who want to build connections, deeper intimacy, better understanding & communication, and mind-blowing love-making in their relationships.
I guide people in expanding the ability to learn new things, find answers to their questions, make decisions and take the first steps to live the life they always wanted, full of love, peace, freedom, and joy.
Every session is unique. If you want to give it as a gift, send an email with the password: Christmas2020
14. Pleasure School from Juliet Allen
Pleasure School is a 12-month learning experience for anyone ready to explore the exciting and healing depths of their sexual essence. It’s an online classroom that makes the study of sex, intimacy, conscious connections, and embodiment available to everyone.
Pleasure School is led by its principal teacher, Australian sexologist Juliet Allen, together with other teachers who are pioneering in the fields of sexuality, relationships, and holistic health.
15. Wearable Bluetooth vibrator We-Vibe Jive from We Vibe
Add adventure to your routine with the ultimate* in discreet pleasure. It will become a fun and exciting companion during your games, and you will also fall in love with it for everyday activities, such as housework. Intensify the pleasure with ten modes and powerful vibrations, and pulse programs for which you increase or decrease the intensity of the app. Or create your own straight away. We-Vibe Jive is such a small touch of luxury in our laps.
16. The Card Game for Couples The And from The Skin Deep
What is the question you’re dying to know the answers to, but are too afraid to ask your partner? Do you need a hand of 199 questions ready to dig deep and connect with our real selves?
“{THE AND} Couples Edition” card game is a communication game designed to explore your connection and help deepen your relationship. We need more conversations worth having.
E.g. Who sacrifices more in our relationship, and how do you feel about it?
17. Book The Wonder Down Under from Nina Brochmann and Ellen Stokken Dahl
The Wonder Down Under is a comprehensive joyful book that explains everything you wanted to know about vulva and vagina, but you were afraid to ask. Nina Brochmann and Ellen Støkken Dahl wrote this book to inform about a healthy attitude towards female sexual organs and sexual health with medical expertise and genuine empathy.
Did you know, for instance, that female and male sex organ are merely variations on the same basic structure? Or that there’s no such thing as a virginity test because a broken hymen is not a meaningful indicator of whether or not someone’s had sex? What about anticonception methods or STIs?
This book is to honor the female genitalia.
18. Edible body paint from Spencer & Fleetwood
For someone who is creative, edible body paint is an original idea of how to play with the body and experience a lot of fun.
19. Nipple Play Clamps from Crystal Chain
Nipple clamps* are an elegant idea for those who like it more spicy and for people looking to push the boundaries of pleasure and explore their dazzlingly kinky side. The soft silicone pads and adjustable tension let you take over control of the thin line between pleasure and pain for a sinfully arousing experience. Dominants will love the full range of motion the chained clasp design and adjustable clamps give their playtime, while the most submissive types will love the sensual comfort of the silicone pads and striking crystal chain.
20. Spiketra Body Harness from Onna
“Dressing sexy but still classy and elegant for work or a date is an art. There is a thin line between celebrating femininity and trying too hard and looking trashy. We are all about flaunting our sexiness in a more subtle and sophisticated way. Less is always more!
This sexy masterpiece emphasizes the most tempting spots on the female body with snug bands. Minimal, elegant, yet feminine design perfect for a special occasion.”
21. Vulva Puppet from Dorrie Lane
This handmade plush puppet is made of velvet and satin, but you can commission one in any color or fabric combination you want. Use it as a teaching tool to show your partner what and how you like it, sofa accent, or both!
22. The Water-Based Lubrikant from Lubido
Lube* is essential for sex. This water-based lubricant is the longest lasting of its kind and guarantees to amplify pleasure. It’s smooth, odorless and stain¶ben-free. When using this lubricant*, it is enough to use only a small amount with which you will achieve a long-lasting effect. The composition of this lube is suitable for all types of erotic aids. You can use it to increase moisture during sexual intercourse.
23. Venus from Petra Lukovicsova
This original souvenir represents and emotionally connects with the spirit of the place. The object is made in a limited edition using 3D printing technology. Use as an eye-catching decoration, for example, as you can see in the picture below. Petra made this Venus in Slovakia.
24. Raven Wave from Onna
“Onna WAVE is the Marylin Monroe of pleasure toys. They designed it for a woman of elegance who wishes to explore her pleasure and expand her orgasmic potential. This toy is the epitome of femininity – luxurious, playful, sturdy, and curvy in all the right places.
WAVE provides stimulation from perfect tapping on the G-spot to the fulfilling experience of vaginal penetration. Angled its curves so perfectly that even micro-movements send waves of sensual joy down the body providing wave after wave of pleasure. Playtime with the WAVE is an invitation into the sweet surrender of sexual ecstasy and exploration of female ejaculation.“
